Someone challenged me psychologically recently and it backfired terribly. I hate people who use psycho-warfare on me, especially people who think they know me very well and will sure fall into the trap. All I can say is sorry, please try harder next time.
Recently one of my friends commented that he will not be judgemental and therefore we can be truthful to him. But when he said that , something kept dwelling in me. I knew something was wrong. In the end, the absolute mistake in the sentence he said slammed right into my face on my bus ride to school. How can one be non-judgemental? Oh please! Even God judges people, that is why people often make passing remarks that judgement day is coming! Even psychology has emphasized on first impression. When we make new friends for the first time, we already made judgements of how the person is by the way he carries himself or dresses. Well, therefore I come to the conclusion that my friend is just being too self confident or maybe he wasn't even aware that he was sometimes judgemental too. Or even worst, he does not know what judgement really means.
As usual, I need to compile prayer requests on Monday. And as usual again, there will be people who will miss the deadline drastically despite the countless reminders I sent them. Whatever it is , I shall just send out when I finish....I hope they will send in their personal requests tomorrow....
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