Reading some of my friends' blogs then did I realised how much each of us had changed.

Things around us are forever changing , much less to mention people. Sometimes , we find it difficult to share our troubles with even our closest friends as compared to the past. I guess as we grow older, we are more conscious of how people look at us. As time goes by , we speak less and less of ourselves and have more and more secrets within our scarred hearts. Even when close friends get together , we can sense that things are no longer the same. We no longer share the same passion or even goals. All we have in common are mundane daily hobbies like shopping. Even then , our taste are completely different. We are probably just lingering on a decayed friendship, hoping to salvage it in any way we can.

Are we more comfortable with our present friends that we no longer have any time for our close friends? I mean we no longer have complete accountability or knowledge of our friends' lives anymore. Or should I say we no longer place our close friends as one of the most important issue in our heart? We are no longer in control. Even when our friends are in trouble , all we can do is to offer advice.

I guess things will never be the same.


If you are to die today , will you die with any regret?